the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning.
a natural or inherent aptitude, impulse, or capacity.
Dreams are pretty interesting really. They can shows and teach us things that we may not have thought about while awake. Other times, they are a mix of goofy moments we did during the day or something we watched. The dream I had last night revolved around a game called Space Engineers and I think a little bit of either Event Horizon or Alien slipped in the mix.
I was the Captain of a space craft and we were docking to board another ship that had not been answering back for some time. I had a crew of five going over with me. My intuition was alarming me that something was clearly wrong with this picture of course. Even though the oxygen was on at the second craft, I wouldn’t let any of us take our gear off. All was quiet. Too quiet.
Going past a couple rooms that were empty and rounding a corner where the dining area is, we immediately see carnage of bodies. I will spare the details. Without hesitation, I told the crew we are to evacuate quietly and now. One started to argue that we were there to investigate and asked how I knew we were in danger. I replied that the blood was not fully dry. I was a Captain of a space ship, not an investigator.
Intuition and instincts.
It hit me after I woke up that I was willing (in dream) to listen to both intuition and instincts. Why? Was it because there was blood? There was obvious danger? What made me think not to take off our suits? I was thinking ahead. So the outcome wasn’t like we see in the movies where one dummy defies orders and takes it off, ends up with an alien rammed down his throat, we go back to the ship and it continues on. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Why don’t we use our intuition better with our daily life? Why do we ignore signs and excuse people or their behavior? Is it because we have been taught to give chances from forgiveness? It’s probably the best answer I can come up with. In abuse situations, the victim stays with the abuser and forgives their words or actions, but it continues on again.
to cease to feel resentment against (an offender).
to give up resentment of or claim to requital for.
to grant relief from payment of.
Just because you forgive, it doesn’t mean you allow the person to continue to abuse, mistreat, disrespect, or to continue whatever it is that they keep doing. So in repeat situations, it is not a habit, it is part of who they are, which brings me to control.
to exercise restraint or direction over; dominate.
You must control yourself with action and words to keep from repeat moments. Learn to listen to your intuition before it becomes instinct. There is no need to feel the ‘flight or fight’ from epinephrine rushing through your body because you’re stressed out, angry or fear your situation. It cases increased heart rate, blood pressure, cardiac output and carbohydrate metabolism. Go – look it up. Epinephrine.
You cannot control others. They must master their own mind, soul, tongue and actions. They must see within their core being to change. You have no control over this – even if you or a counselor were to point it out. You have no control.
an act that one consciously wills and that may be characterized by physical or mental activity.
It speaks far louder than words and if you do not see progress on their side, it’s time to keep working on yourself and move forward. You may find that you will have to leave that person behind. Words are cheap, but action is worth gold.
So trust your intuition before your instincts kick in.
Featured image for the movie Alien.